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Hello my Contripeople trust you all doing well?
Here is a story of a confused young lady that requires mature answer please.
After close of work yesterday, I head straight to d market to buy ingredients for d egusi soup a friend taught me. I got home thinking of how to start preparing the soup and I heard a knock at my door, I opened the door and it was bisola ( not real name) with an unpleasant look ![Angry Angry](http://contripeople.com/images/smilies/angry.png) what is the matter with you I asked? She replied Aunty am I normal? I took her hand and drag her in, sat her down n began staring at her. Bisola I started, u know u can always confide in me, tell me are u pregnant? Nooo Aunty I'm not pregnant! I am having trouble understanding my heart. I have this guy I love so much he is married and doesn't take me seriously just as I was nursing this pain, an old school friend buzzed me on Facebook, we reconnected and started getting along well. He wanted marriage but I don't love him enough to want to settle down with him we both understand this and decide to call it a quit. Ever since I can not stay without a man ( don't misquote is not sex oo) I just can not control who I fall in love with please help me and she started crying.
My fellow Contripeople what do u think is her problem and how do we help her?
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I think she should go for the first guy, she've dated before if he truly loved her with time the sparks will come. Abeg my candid advice, I no be marriage counselor make i run
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(08-03-2018, 05:30 PM)Edoman Wrote: I think she should go for the first guy, she've dated before if he truly loved her with time the sparks will come. Abeg my candid advice, I no be marriage counselor make i run
![[Image: 7508540_img20180602203631_jpegb9e446cded...a1d99926ff]](https://www.nairaland.com/attachments/7508540_img20180602203631_jpegb9e446cdede0c81d039f44a1d99926ff)
THATS FAIR ENOUGH,. BUT THE GUY IS MARRIED DO U THINK SHE SHOULD STILL GO BACK TO HIM?
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(08-03-2018, 06:01 PM)Gimbiya Wrote: (08-03-2018, 05:30 PM)Edoman Wrote: I think she should go for the first guy, she've dated before if he truly loved her with time the sparks will come. Abeg my candid advice, I no be marriage counselor make i run
![[Image: 7508540_img20180602203631_jpegb9e446cded...a1d99926ff]](https://www.nairaland.com/attachments/7508540_img20180602203631_jpegb9e446cdede0c81d039f44a1d99926ff)
THATS FAIR ENOUGH,. BUT THE GUY IS MARRIED DO U THINK SHE SHOULD STILL GO BACK TO HIM?
I am a believer of one man, a wife, So i won't advice any single lady to become a second wife but be that as it may i don't know her religion or believe. Just doing my best to advice, I no be marriage counselor abeg
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(08-03-2018, 07:35 PM)Edoman Wrote: (08-03-2018, 06:01 PM)Gimbiya Wrote: (08-03-2018, 05:30 PM)Edoman Wrote: I think she should go for the first guy, she've dated before if he truly loved her with time the sparks will come. Abeg my candid advice, I no be marriage counselor make i run
![[Image: 7508540_img20180602203631_jpegb9e446cded...a1d99926ff]](https://www.nairaland.com/attachments/7508540_img20180602203631_jpegb9e446cdede0c81d039f44a1d99926ff)
THATS FAIR ENOUGH,. BUT THE GUY IS MARRIED DO U THINK SHE SHOULD STILL GO BACK TO HIM?
I am a believer of one man, a wife, So i won't advice any single lady to become a second wife but be that as it may i don't know her religion or believe. Just doing my best to advice, I no be marriage counselor abeg
![[Image: 7510774_7472582img20180702175039021jpeg4...79490ca4d0]](https://www.nairaland.com/attachments/7510774_7472582img20180702175039021jpeg40eb179c2ffe28275ba86975d57de439_jpeg89853eb7adf006a88792c479490ca4d0)
Edoman, you are doing good pls continue. your advice is she should forget the married man? but the main issue here is how her heart has been dancing up n down. any man wey come her way she falls easily how we go take solve this one?
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( don't misquote is not sex oo)ashawo, husband snatcher what you need is Jesus in your life.
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Haha @Roverr442 You harsh ooo? If na your sister nko?
Anyway, here is my advice, I think she should go see a therapist. Unfortunately, we dont have so much of such therapists in this country. My contripeople, she just might be suffering from multiple personality syndrome!?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️
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(08-03-2018, 11:23 PM)e-guru Wrote: Haha @Roverr442 You harsh ooo? If na your sister nko?
Anyway, here is my advice, I think she should go see a therapist. Unfortunately, we dont have so much of such therapists in this country. My contripeople, she just might be suffering from multiple personality syndrome!?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️
The more reason why she needs Jesus
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(08-03-2018, 07:40 PM)Rover442 Wrote: ( don't misquote is not sex oo)ashawo, husband snatcher what you need is Jesus in your life.
Rover! How many times did I call u?
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if she wants to be a side chick let her be.
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na side hen she go be last last
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later she go dey say men are scum
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(08-04-2018, 11:36 AM)CONTRIPERSON Wrote: na side hen she go be last last
"SIDE HEN" oh nigerIan's are wicked
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She needs self discipline, how can someone be falling in love indiscriminately?
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(08-04-2018, 06:16 PM)Abby234 Wrote: She needs self discipline, how can someone be falling in love indiscriminately?
Falling in love ![Heart Heart](http://contripeople.com/images/smilies/heart.png) And decide what she really want
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