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Hello my Contripeople trust you all doing well?
Here is a story of a confused young lady that requires mature answer please.
After close of work yesterday, I head straight to d market to buy ingredients for d egusi soup a friend taught me. I got home thinking of how to start preparing the soup and I heard a knock at my door, I opened the door and it was bisola ( not real name) with an unpleasant look  what is the matter with you I asked? She replied Aunty am I normal? I took her hand and drag her in, sat her down n began staring at her. Bisola I started, u know u can always confide in me, tell me are u pregnant? Nooo Aunty I'm not pregnant! I am having trouble understanding my heart. I have this guy I love so much he is married and doesn't take me seriously just as I was nursing this pain, an old school friend buzzed me on Facebook, we reconnected and started getting along well. He wanted marriage but I don't love him enough to want to settle down with him we both understand this and decide to call it a quit. Ever since I can not stay without a man ( don't misquote is not sex oo) I just can not control who I fall in love with please help me and she started crying.
My fellow Contripeople what do u think is her problem and how do we help her?
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I think she should go for the first guy, she've dated before if he truly loved her with time the sparks will come. Abeg my candid advice, I no be marriage counselor make i run
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(08-03-2018, 05:30 PM)Edoman Wrote: I think she should go for the first guy, she've dated before if he truly loved her with time the sparks will come. Abeg my candid advice, I no be marriage counselor make i run
THATS FAIR ENOUGH,. BUT THE GUY IS MARRIED DO U THINK SHE SHOULD STILL GO BACK TO HIM?
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(08-03-2018, 06:01 PM)Gimbiya Wrote: (08-03-2018, 05:30 PM)Edoman Wrote: I think she should go for the first guy, she've dated before if he truly loved her with time the sparks will come. Abeg my candid advice, I no be marriage counselor make i run
THATS FAIR ENOUGH,. BUT THE GUY IS MARRIED DO U THINK SHE SHOULD STILL GO BACK TO HIM?
I am a believer of one man, a wife, So i won't advice any single lady to become a second wife but be that as it may i don't know her religion or believe. Just doing my best to advice, I no be marriage counselor abeg
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(08-03-2018, 07:35 PM)Edoman Wrote: (08-03-2018, 06:01 PM)Gimbiya Wrote: (08-03-2018, 05:30 PM)Edoman Wrote: I think she should go for the first guy, she've dated before if he truly loved her with time the sparks will come. Abeg my candid advice, I no be marriage counselor make i run
THATS FAIR ENOUGH,. BUT THE GUY IS MARRIED DO U THINK SHE SHOULD STILL GO BACK TO HIM?
I am a believer of one man, a wife, So i won't advice any single lady to become a second wife but be that as it may i don't know her religion or believe. Just doing my best to advice, I no be marriage counselor abeg
Edoman, you are doing good pls continue. your advice is she should forget the married man? but the main issue here is how her heart has been dancing up n down. any man wey come her way she falls easily how we go take solve this one?
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( don't misquote is not sex oo)ashawo, husband snatcher what you need is Jesus in your life.
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Haha @Roverr442 You harsh ooo? If na your sister nko?
Anyway, here is my advice, I think she should go see a therapist. Unfortunately, we dont have so much of such therapists in this country. My contripeople, she just might be suffering from multiple personality syndrome!?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️
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(08-03-2018, 11:23 PM)e-guru Wrote: Haha @Roverr442 You harsh ooo? If na your sister nko?
Anyway, here is my advice, I think she should go see a therapist. Unfortunately, we dont have so much of such therapists in this country. My contripeople, she just might be suffering from multiple personality syndrome!?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️
The more reason why she needs Jesus
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(08-03-2018, 07:40 PM)Rover442 Wrote: ( don't misquote is not sex oo)ashawo, husband snatcher what you need is Jesus in your life.
Rover! How many times did I call u?
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if she wants to be a side chick let her be.
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na side hen she go be last last
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later she go dey say men are scum
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(08-04-2018, 11:36 AM)CONTRIPERSON Wrote: na side hen she go be last last
"SIDE HEN" oh nigerIan's are wicked
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She needs self discipline, how can someone be falling in love indiscriminately?
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(08-04-2018, 06:16 PM)Abby234 Wrote: She needs self discipline, how can someone be falling in love indiscriminately?
Falling in love  And decide what she really want 
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